Friday, December 14, 2012

Free to love again...

Ahh...the pain of a broken heart...

When a relationship is over, one or both lovers hurts and in that pain it is easy to fall into behaviors that prolong the anguish and postpone the healing. Such behaviors include attachment, arguments, fault finding and dependence, among others. We do this because it is what we know to do and because we lack a knowing that everything is going to be ok.

When a relationship is over it is time to release...release the attachment and release the lover to a higher force. Holding on to what happened, why it happened and why you, stops the possibility of remembering kindly (remembering that everyone acts according to their emotional level of understanding, including you) in order to learn, grow and move on. Every time you love, you get closer to the love you really want. Releasing and forgiving clears the space open to love again.

When you let go, you allow yourself to be taken care of. It is a show of faith. You feel that all will be ok. Start...let go and feel the healing and the joy of a resentment-free heart. Let go and see the love already around you. Let go and accept the love that comes your way. Let are free to love again.

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